Attention parents of high school seniors: Do you know where your senior’s backpack is? If it has been staying in the car overnight, you may need to be concerned.
March is Senioritis Awareness Month (not officially, but to this executive function coach it is!) and I’m starting awareness with you. Thankfully, the disease is easy to identify when you know what to look for:
- Is your senior wearing an excessive amount of track pants, tattered tees, and flip flops?
- Is his/her backpack left in the car overnight or all weekend?
- Are your queries about incoming admission decisions met with dismissive grunts?
If you answered yes to one or more questions, your senior may be at risk for Senioritis.
More serious cases of this condition require urgent care. Frequent absences, slipping grades, skipped classes, and incomplete assignments are red flags that your senior is not coping well with the demands of finishing high school. In some severe cases, students may adopt unhealthy strategies such as withdrawal from family, friends, and activities or excessive partying and drug use. If left untreated, Senioritis can result in jeopardized futures with students failing to prepare effectively.
In these more severe cases, the prognosis is good with appropriate care. Connecting with your senior to see how s/he is coping, clarifying expectations for finishing the year strong, and providing healthy outlets for stress-relief are great ways for parents to help. Think your senior may listen to a third party with more "open ears"? Don't forget that guidance counselors at schools are there to help students after all those recommendation letters are sent, too. They might point you or your senior to other sources, such as an executive function coach, that may help him/her prepare for the transition to college, instead of just playing the "waiting game".
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